I can only help you with the second question - I have no problem squeezing my anus or any other part in that area LOL. All is tight and nice and "squeezable "
but I do not even dream of doing Kegel - my muscles would get to their original "iron" squeeze stage and I would need LIS no. 3 (not unheard of though ....God forbid !!!!) I just did 3 "anus push ups" for you , and you owe me a BIG time , ha ha ha...
Regarding Botox, I know that my friends who have it done on face told me it works for about 3 months
, but the relaxation would disappear gradually over time, or that is what they told me ...
I completely understand your concern
- maybe it is safer to wait for 12 weeks to pass