by small_flower » 10 Mar 2008, 12:34
Hello,
I am glad that you found the board. I know I was totally relieved to finally have a place where I could talk about my butt issues without being laughed at!
I had surgery last year, and my healing time was about a week. After that week was up I had to go back to teaching (student teaching) but I made sure that I took it easy. Aside for the pain after surgery (I just didn't feel good, groggy, in pain, didn't want to move or eat) I think my biggest fear was that first BM. I got through it though! It wasn't as bad as you would think. After surgery care is key!
A year later I still have some set backs but its only due to my own negligence of the new life style that one must develop. Surgery can help you heal but it certainly isn't a magical cure. Having a fissure requires life long changes, which I am currently trying to stick with.
Surgery was a god send for me though, and I am sure that it will be for you too. I know your scared, but believe me, its going to be worth it. I suggest bringing a pillow in the car to sit on for when you go home though. I didn't do that and it was a rough ride!
Good luck! You'll be fine and happier then ever when you come out on the other side.
xo
kate