Hello everyone!
First of all, i would like to thank everyone who has posted over the past months. I have been reading all of your threads, trying to figure out whether to have LIS surgery or just live with the agony. Because of your very honest replies (and that fact that no one has said they have been rendered incontinent) I went through with the surgery 14 days ago.
I have had fissures and crazy pain off and on since the birth of my first child 15 years ago. I should have made him pay for the surgery out of his allowance :) This past summer, my tooth became absessed and I to go on powerful antibiotics before and after oral surgery. You can just imagine how my VERY loose BMs aggrivated my fissure! To add insult to injury, in October I had to have my gallbladder removed, and the unwanted side effect for that is loose - and I mean loose - BMs. That is when I really began my decent into hell.
After my wonderful PCP referred me to a CRS because I was crying in his office from the horrible pain and 24/7 spasms, I was told by my CRS I would need surgery. No creams, Botox, no options. I walked out of his office horrified, and then began to do research. A couple of days later I made an appointment to speak to him about it, and he was great - 30 minutes later, all my questions were answered about why he felt I needed surgery, and what he was going to do. If only he would have done that at the first visit! consult appointments are given more time, I was told. A co-pay well-spent.
He performed LIS with fissurectomy and removed a very nasty skin tag. I had really bad scarring - my PCP said so as well - and it wasn't healing at all. He told me I would want to kill him for 3 days after surgery, and he wasn't kidding! My post-op appt a couple of days ago went well, and my fissure has healed!!! But - he still wants me to follow all his instructions. I still do have pain and burning, and prefer not to it down for long periods. He said that was normal and I would still be sore for another 3 - 4 weeks because of the incision.
Wow - didn't know I could write this much! I really came to rely on this board as the only place I could go where people had the same issues I had - unbelievable pain that totally controlled their lives off and on for years. TGe pain I have now, I will trade any day for the head-banging, banshee-screaming pain I felt.