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Postby pinpin » 03 Dec 2013, 05:23

Hello,

I just found we have got some many unanswered posts, mostly to new members.

Which is explainable and sad the same time

http://anal-fissure.org/unanswered.html
07.02.2013 - got open hemorrhoidectomy, leaded to slow healing wound. Link to story
11.12.2013 - LIS surgery
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Re: Unanswered posts

Postby Scientist2516 » 03 Dec 2013, 12:47

Hi Igrik, every now and again I check the unanswered posts to see if there is anything I can usefully say. A lot of the time it's something I don't know anything about, so I don't answer. But I know it's depressing to pour your heart out and see several "views" but no replies, so perhaps I should at least say something sympathetic?
Nifedipine/lidocaine, no help
Diltiazem, effective, but caused major rash
Nitroglycerine, effective.
Topical estrogen for final healing.
Gentle heat to bottom - pain relief, muscle relaxant
Kondremul mineral oil
Time - lots of time.
Status - Healed!
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Re: Unanswered posts

Postby Bettyblue » 03 Dec 2013, 16:43

I agree with you. I am new and I am trying to look for post where nobody has written anything. Some times you read them and is very sad because you can see how scared and alone they feel. So yes, I think to say something sympathetic is a very good idea. I know how it feels when you are in pain and scared and there is nowhere to turn.
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Re: Unanswered posts

Postby Please go-away! » 03 Dec 2013, 22:36

I couldnt agree more Betty, we have all been through it, and it pretty scary and painfull, even an encouraging word, or a special food you like mite help.

Many are surgery related and I haven't gone through that , I was lucky to heal naturely, although it took a long time, I can still lend some advice on overall healing , eating and pain management.
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Re: Unanswered posts

Postby Deleted User 2950 » 04 Dec 2013, 10:52

My sentiments exactly guys;

I think I'll hunt down a few myself just to bump them up
to the top again if nothing else.

Oftentimes what will help if I know nothing on what their asking
is to plug in some of their key words into the search engine here
and many times that subject will have been discussed and they
can get help that way by supplying the links or better still plugging
the response of the link with the link included.

Thanks again for reminding us of this guys......
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Re: Unanswered posts

Postby Scientist2516 » 04 Dec 2013, 10:53

Great ideas Buttastic.
Nifedipine/lidocaine, no help
Diltiazem, effective, but caused major rash
Nitroglycerine, effective.
Topical estrogen for final healing.
Gentle heat to bottom - pain relief, muscle relaxant
Kondremul mineral oil
Time - lots of time.
Status - Healed!
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Re: Unanswered posts

Postby Savaici » 05 Dec 2013, 21:18

I think that most of us who are here on a regular basis try hard to answer the posts from those quite obviously suffering. I have not been online for a week or so, but I do think that those of us who are here fairly regularly do try our best to answer. There is a difference between posts, and it is not always easy to catch every one, or to have a ready answer to every question. A percentage are healed stories or posts about something that has helped someone heal. And often people post one post and do not return, with those sort of posts.

My advice, as with others, if you find a post that is unanswered, answer it. Even just a few words. But, we are all in the same boat here. We are not experts and the "best" of sites, with many members online can still have people falling through the cracks. Don't beat yourselves up, folks. Just like the rest, we are only human. We do what we can to help our fellow members. :afsmile:
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