It was a great feeling to have found a source with all sorts of people that went through the same ordeals as I did.
Tried lots of things, went to the doctor plenty of times, tried all sorts of medicine had an colonoscopy and in the end resolved the problem with a little bit of help on my own.
Thought back of all the painful days, weeks, months and wanted to share that even after 2 years i feel fine. The area scarred a bit with some tissue sometimes move around when my stomach hurts and you need to go to the bathroom a lot, but other than that, it is all gone.
The only thing I did was using the cream to numb the area (the headache cream), not on the wound, but around it. Than use a small piece of gauze, put it on the wound, between the tissue of the sphincter, have it stay there till you need to go to the bathroom, remove the gauze, add new small piece. Repeat this till the wound has healed. Each time I removed the gauze, i saw that it had some blood on there, and less and less of it after a couple of times. That's all I did. And instead of messing about for months, it was healed in a week or so. 2 weeks tops.
I had my fissure for at least half a year before that. At first the doctor thought it was something else, i used completely the wrong stuff that made the wound agitated even further, so even after that to have it cured this way is pretty remarkable.
Hope that this helps to some that have no idea what to do next. It has helped me.