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Re: In so much pain and sadness...

Postby janucheekoo » 08 Feb 2013, 23:35

ggky i can explain please do not over dose on pain killers. hot waters baths heating pad and rest it your best option if you can get some muscles relaxer prescription from the doctor. first you need to find out what type of fissure you have. hard stool fissures or a fissure due to the pressure on the rectum.hard stool fissure usually do not cause pain and fast to heal with out notice its the pressure on the rectum due to constipation. you can take ibuprofen 600 or 800 with milk at bedtime quit meat and eat more fruits. loads of water use baby wipes after bm.
you have spasm do not strain that place sleep as much as you can. nitro ointment is good too will heal very quickly. but it will give you some side effects. but worth the situation you are in. LIS is a temporary fix.
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Re: In so much pain and sadness...

Postby GGky1959 » 09 Feb 2013, 16:45

marg6043 wrote:I have taken pain killers when my fissure was in the worst and those were mostly all the time while the fissure was fresh, I always gave me some time in between for my liver to recover.
But sadly only time and a lot of tender loving care to the area where the fissure is help ease the discomfort and pain.
Is not magic cure, I know, anybody that have fissures knows, but is light at the end of the fissure tunnel of pain.
But only time will heal or make the pain more bearable.
I am truly so sorry that so many people have to go with pain and suffering of a fissure, I been there and I know how bad it can get.

Thanks for your response......today thank God was a good day. I had my dreaded BM, but.....I survived the day without any pain meds, only my anusol. I'm so giddy I could cry.
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Re: In so much pain and sadness...

Postby GGky1959 » 09 Feb 2013, 16:47

janucheekoo wrote:ggky i can explain please do not over dose on pain killers. hot waters baths heating pad and rest it your best option if you can get some muscles relaxer prescription from the doctor. first you need to find out what type of fissure you have. hard stool fissures or a fissure due to the pressure on the rectum.hard stool fissure usually do not cause pain and fast to heal with out notice its the pressure on the rectum due to constipation. you can take ibuprofen 600 or 800 with milk at bedtime quit meat and eat more fruits. loads of water use baby wipes after bm.
you have spasm do not strain that place sleep as much as you can. nitro ointment is good too will heal very quickly. but it will give you some side effects. but worth the situation you are in. LIS is a temporary fix.

I must have the fissure do the pressure of the rectum because the pain is severe enough to cause heart rate to excel and tears to flow non stop. I do however take the eating measure seriously, so thanks for the advice. I can't afford the surgery and hopefully with life adjustments I can beat this thing...naturally.
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Re: In so much pain and sadness...

Postby marg6043 » 09 Feb 2013, 17:20

GGky1959, I am glad that today was a good day, tomorrow will be a good day too, as the days goes by, it will be more good days than bad, but that doesn't mean that the bad days will be easy, some may be worst, some may be bad, some will be no so bad.
But then things change, then it will be good days, better days and then you get to think this thing is healing, is actually healing.
But the road is not an easy one and as will everything we just have to learn to ride it.
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Re: In so much pain and sadness...

Postby Tighty » 11 Feb 2013, 09:56

Booty, I'm sorry to hear you've suffering as well. I'm new to this as well (a month in). I have an appointment with a CRS, but honestly I'm considering canceling the appt. as I do believe these can heal on their own, or at least, can be managed without surgery. Mine did heal (temporarily) after a few weeks, until this weekend when my diet/regimen went completely off track. Otherwise, I was able to manage the issue with a combination of methods: stool softeners, which I will wean off once it heals again, magnesium tablets, lots of water and cooked vegetables. I'm also considering adding one tablespoon of coconut oil (orally) before bed every night. Here is a post that helped me:
This is Jess - I originally started this post over 2 years ago.

For anyone who is suffering with an anal fissure, I wanted to stop by and update you on my condition, in case my experience can help you too.

Back in 2007 I was in agonising pain; I honestly believed my fissure would never go away and that I would be forced to have surgery on it. The pain was so bad that when I went to the toilet - (which felt like I was passing sharp pieces of glass) - I used to think I would pass out. It was ruining my life. I felt hopeless and depressed.

Well, I have been clear of pain for almost two years now. I do get the odd setback from time to time, where I feel that the fissure might tear again, but I believe I have a method to keep it under control.

So here is my personal method to help cure anal fissures...

1) Each healthily, avoid fatty foods, and eat plenty of insoluble fiber (such as vegetables and cereal/bran.)
This will not cure the fissure but it will keep you regular and prevent you from getting constipated. If you've got a fissure, or have had one, you must avoid constipation at all costs! I ate and still eat a large bowl of Bran Flakes every morning for breakfast. Sprinkle All Bran on the top for even more fiber. With every evening meal, I made sure to include vegetables, especially root mash (which is basically sweet potato, turnips/parsnips, swedes, etc, mashed up like mashed potatoes ... it's a good way of eating lots of insoluble fiber if you don't really like green veg much.) I personally found that soluble fiber, such as fruit and beans, made no difference at all. It had to be insoluble fiber, which the body cannot digest and therefore passes out more quickly.
If you absolutely hate veg and cereal, try taking fiber supplements such as Fibergel.

2) Drink plenty of water.
This is very important as it helps keep your stools soft. Try to drink a large 1.5 or 2 litre bottle of water per day. I find it difficult to drink large amounts of liquid, so I keep the bottle with me and sip throughout the day.

3) Take two magnesium tablets (300mg each) every single day.
THIS STEP IS ESSENTIAL! Discovering magnesium on this forum was a godsend to me. I can't explain how it works but it definitely softens the stools. I take one tablet after my evening meal, and another tablet before I go to bed. Magnesium was THE lifesaver for me!

4) Take three stool softeners, morning, evening and night (docusate sodium 100mg per tablet).
Again, this is another essential step in healing your fissure. In the UK I buy a brand called DulcoEase. You can buy them from any chemist or large supermarket. If you still feel your stools are hard, increase the tablets to 4 per day. (According to the instructions, 4 per day is the maximum.)
5) Use a tiny amount of Rectogesic cream applied three times a day.
All you need is about 1/2 - 1 cm of cream (the size of the tip of your little finger.) Make sure you thoroughly wash your hands with anti-bacterial wash before you insert the cream. Use your littlest finger as that's less painful to insert. Be prepared - it stings!!! If you use too much you will get bad headaches. Some people stop using it because of headaches, and that's a shame, because this stuff really does help. Basically it relaxes the sphincter / rectum muscles so that the stool can pass more easily. If you're getting headaches, try using less until you find an amount you can tolerate, but do stick with it. It will help! In the UK you can only get Rectogesic Ointment with a prescription from a doctor. I did not want the doctor looking at my bum! So I discovered that you can buy it from online pharmacies based in Australia without a prescription. International shipping is very expensive - but I decided any price was worth paying if it got rid of the pain!

6) Use quality toilet paper!
Poor quality rough toilet paper irritates the fissure even more. Baby wipes are a better alternative and they keep the area clean. I recommend the brand 'Simple' as they are un-perfumed and designed for sensitive skin. When you go to the toilet, be very gentle wiping yourself.

7) Take hot shallow baths.
After you've been to the toilet, you may feel extremely sore (I used to feel an awful throbbing pain) - so jump into a hot shallow bath, just enough water to cover your hips. The hot water will make your sphincter muscle relax. Do not add anything to the water, as that may cause further irritation. A bath is also a good idea as it keeps the fissure clean (and going to the toilet can be a bit messy with all those stool softeners!)

I consider all of the above as essential in the process of healing my own anal fissure - not individually, but all 7 tips combined together on a regular basis.
After at least 8 months of excruciating pain, I developed this regime, stuck to it strictly, and within a week started to feel a difference. I was going to the toilet regularly, my stools were soft enough not to stretch the fissure, and the pain was going away.
Please give it a try for yourself. It's a long process and you have to be patient - but you will start to feel better eventually.

After a few weeks, or even months, when you feel confident the fissure is healing well, you can alter the regime...

First, cut back the Rectogesic cream - use smaller and smaller amounts, and apply only once a day, until you can stop it completely.

Second, cut back on the stool softeners (they can alter your potassium levels after prolonged use). Eventually get yourself down to just one a day.

Continue to take 2 magnesium tablets a day. I still take them, 2 years later. I always will take them! They will not cause any harm; magnesium is no more harmful than taking calcium or any other vitamin/mineral supplement. In the UK you can buy them very cheaply from Morrisons supermarket. Chemists like Boots are expensive.

Also continue to drink plenty of fluids.

A few more tips...

- To sooth and cool the pain, try applying generous amount of Dr Chris's Wheatgrass cream twice a day (not at the same time as the Rectogesic cream.) Don't use any other creams as this may cause irriation. The Wheatgrass will help the skin heal and grow stronger too.

- Avoid eating anything containing seeds or nuts (such as strawberries, kiwi fruit, almond nuts). Seeds and nuts don't always digest, and if you pass them out whole, they could prick into the fissure, potentially re-opening it. I used to eat a lot of kiwi fruit, believing it would help me go to the toilet - but then I realised that I was passing the seeds in my stools. I could see them on the toilet paper! I cut them out of my diet and felt there was an improvement.

- Before you go to the toilet for a bowel movement, try putting some Vaseline around the anus (if it doesn't hurt too much, insert it a little way into the anus with your little finger.) This lubrication will make the stool a bit easier to pass. You must thoroughly wash your hands before applying the Vaseline, and only use a brand new tub of Vaseline (you don't want to add any bacteria to your fissure as it's trying to heal.) After you've been to the toilet, wipe the Vaseline away with a baby wipe, or soak in a shallow bath. You must keep the fissure clean. KY Kelly is another alternative, but I didn't find it as effective.

- When you go to the toilet, you must concentrate, and make sure you don't strain. I used to deep breathe to help me relax on the toilet. Take your time in the bathroom and try to control the speed of the bowel movement. The last thing you need is to be at work and have to use a public toilet - with people waiting outside! So I got myself into the routine of drinking a glass of hot water first thing in the morning. It starts the digestive system working, and, within half an hour, I usually went to the toilet. At least that way I felt I had got the pain over and done with for the rest of the day.

Unfortunately a bad anal fissure leaves the skin in that area weakened. You might have a skin tag there. From then on it's susceptible to being torn again. In some ways I've had to make slight lifestyle changes to keep it at bay - always taking magnesium, drinking plenty of water, and making sure I eat enough insoluble fiber. After your fissure has healed, you must keep a check on it. The moment you feel any pain, or your stools seem hard, take action to prevent it! This means increase your water and fiber intake, and start taking the DulcoEase stool softeners again. In fact, always have a supply of stool softeners for emergencies! If you do that quickly enough, you should nip-it-in-the-bud in time.

Please feel free to copy and paste this article onto any other forums where people are suffering with this awful problem.

Good luck to everyone trying to overcome their anal fissure! I hope so much that some of my tips will ease your pain too...

And thank you to Dr Chris for allowing us to help each other by posting on this forum.
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Re: In so much pain and sadness...

Postby Tighty » 11 Feb 2013, 09:57

GGky, are you taking stool softeners? I started taking the max (3/day) of Dulcolax and it definitely helped keep the stook soft so the fissure could heal.
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