So, on top of dealing with this fissure & bipolar disorder, I also had a bad run-in with the nurse at my CRS's office recently. Backstory first..The clinic where I am a patient for my HIV has their own CRS, and he had examined me way back in his office for an infected polyp I needed removed. However, he was going to be out of town for several weeks, and I didn't want to wait that long because it was causing me a lot of discomfort. So, I went outside my clinic & found another private CRS to do the brief outpatient procedure for me. He also did a colonoscopy. No biggie, recovered fine.
But in future, I decided to just stick to my own clinic's CRS if I had any further butt issues, because it's easier & less confusing, & also more affordable there. I went and saw the original CRS in July, and he said everything looked great.
Fast forward to last month, when I had a bad episode of constipation. I strained, & bam, fissure. Been having that ever since. So, since I can't afford to go to the private CRS who did my other surgery, I made another appointment with the CRS at my clinic where I go for my regular HIV checkups. But here's the kicker..When I called to ask them to obtain the faxes of my medical records from my other procedure, the scheduling nurse (who gives people their bowl preps & directions for procedures, etc) flipped out on me. She said, "I don't mean to be nasty, but stop doctor-hopping, & there are a lot of other people who need medical attention, and it's just confusing when you skip around to different doctors". I was stunned. Her tone was nasty, condescending, & rude. I was like, why the hell do you think I'm even bothering to see the CRS again, out of fun?? Because DUH, I am having a new issue, like pain, probably from a tear! But she kept on lecturing me over the phone about why I had to get a referral first & patronizing me. I told her that I didn't "doctor hop", I only went to another CRS to begin with because mine was out of town & I didn't want to wait around with a bleeding ass for weeks. But she was like slamming the new healthcare law & stuff, and basically telling me "you don't need a surgeon". I was thinking b**** who are you to tell me what I need, you're not a CRS you're just a nurse! I couldn't believe her tone. It was like she was implying I was making my pain up. Like I would want to bother with a CRS if I didn't need one, sheesh!
Anyways, I told the CRS about her behavior, and he basically made some lame excuse for her, but he didn't try and defend her at all, because it was indefensible. I plan on reporting her conduct, but for now I am holding off, because I am going to have to go back to that CRS office (the CRS himself is actually pretty decent, if a bit brisk), so I don't want to force the issue just yet.
But why in the world would someone as mean and nasty as her even be in the medical profession, especially working with patients in such a sensitive area as colorectal! If she was that mean to me, I'm sure she's just as mean to other people, and that is scary! Well, she may think she got away with it, but I am going to report her butt at a time of my choosing! She picked on the wrong one!
Luckily, as I said, my CRS is actually okay, attitude-wise, he's a bit brisk & hurried, not sure if that's typical of other CRS, but I've been told my many he's a very good surgeon, so I may hold off reporting that mean nurse until a later date in case I need surgery for my fissure in future, because I don't want to burn any bridges yet. And he's the only CRS in my area, because I can't afford to go to another right now due to my bill from my last surgery. But wow, that nurse woman of his was totally vile to me! I definately plan on reporting her to hospital administration, after I recover.