by Scientist2516 » 30 Sep 2014, 12:29
I dunno, Soey, it seems to depend and vary from person to person. I can say that for me, sex has not caused pain or tearing.
One factor is physical stress from penetrative sex - yes, your boyfriend can be careful, or you could have non-penetrative sex.
The other factor is contractions from your orgasm. I didn't find this to cause problems, but I guess that could vary a lot between people.
I think it's important to try, but be careful and take it really really easy.
Nifedipine/lidocaine, no help
Diltiazem, effective, but caused major rash
Nitroglycerine, effective.
Topical estrogen for final healing.
Gentle heat to bottom - pain relief, muscle relaxant
Kondremul mineral oil
Time - lots of time.
Status - Healed!