Uhmm, I think you maybe correct! Well i decided that I would use it anyway. My reasoning being that its natural so it was unlikely to do me any harm.
Three days later I'm happy to report the following:
a. The honey has had no bad reaction with my skin.
b. The bleeding has stopped.
c. My wife has looked at the area and assures me the redness is not so red.
d. The red area has reduced in size a little.
e. The soreness has reduced as well.
So far so good. It may have been heading that way but I have to point out that these results have occurred even with a not very soft 4 BM day yesterday.
The only down side is the honey 'melts' a bit as it warms down there and tends to run a bit

. Also my wife nows thinks its hilarious to call me 'sweet cheeks'.
This seems to be ok so far for me but anyone trying this should read up as much as possible etc not just base their decision on my 'test'.