1) will the LIS stop me from tearing when I go to have my BM? I feel my BM come out of a tight ring and is very narrow as a result and this is when the damn thing will give me a sharp feeling (lately every couple of weeks followed by a few good days once it settles only to start again). Like will it open the diameter for my BM? Or is that some other muscle?
2) Why is there such swelling down there after LIS? Is the swelling mostly the incision site or the whole hole? How long does it last? Will it flare up hemmies? Did you get any new skin tags.
3) Should I have the sentinel tag removed? It often gets very irritated and inflamed so I would like to get rid of it but don't want to make a bigger problem. I have also asked him to take care of some hemmies if he sees them (just ligation or cauterization). Is this a mistake?
4) How long did you stop eating before your surgery? I have IBS and can't trust that something won't want to come down there, right up until they wheel me in (especially since I take so much stool softener and magnesium now and my nerves get things going). That would not be good. How do they do this surgery if BM comes down there when you are under?
5) Do you have to be in spasm to get LIS? Sometimes I feel spasm but sometimes it feels pretty relaxed all day. Does that mean LIS is going to be too much for me? Even when I feel relaxed though, I still don't think I'd ever get a finger up there!
6) Did you Doctor make you do an enema/prep prior to surgery?
7) Did you get spasms after the surgery? What pain meds did you take after and for how long? Did they help the spasm?

9) How did you ever get the courage to do it? I have chickened out twice already. Thinking maybe I could just live with it. But then I tear again and cry for days and get new courage, but I don't know if it is enough. I have such severe anxiety by this point I think I'll have to be dragged there.
That's plenty for now. Thanks so much in advance. This is such a major thing for me as I have pelvic floor issues (and weakness) that makes me worry how I will fare.
