Hey mamafizz, I am sorry u go through all this and really hope things will turn better for u. I don't feel spasms near the anus anymore now after surgery but if I sit down for straight 30 min, the tip of the tailbone hurts so much. Before the surgery, I suffered from 2 fissures (one is near the tailbone) that is why my tailbone was hurting me before the surgery. After the surgery, I suffered a lot of setbacks, the anus was hurting me and the tailbone as well. But now things have become better, BM is ok and get off lax and replace it with natural stuff. A month off surgery, I got a boil on my tailbone and crs told me it might be a beginning of a tailbone fistula. So he prescribed me antibiotics pills and oinment. The boil is gone. But it returned back after my period and I had to do the same again. Now it is back again and I am taking again antibiotics. I always refer it to the fact that my anus has not retrieved its muscles tightness yet so the leakage goes out reaching the tailbone, causing the place to be always unclean no matter how many times I clean. So here is bacteria and I get the boil. But honestly speaking I dunno if it is the right theory or it is a muscles problem. My dr prescribed me with coccydniya but I see he has nothing else to do cuz my x-Rays were fine. Dunno what to do, I am so fed up
sorry for the long story