Hi all.
Im a 23 old male and I have been dealing with different digestion/bowel/stomach problems for as long as I can remember but the last 1 1/2 years has been very difficult as my anus has started to pay the price.
I have a gluten intolerance and several mental issues being ADHD, anxiety (social in particular) OCD and severe moodswings (on/off depressive periods). I think this might be relevant to mention as I see a big connection between my mind and body. At the time, they are both in hell!
So, about 1 1/2 years ago I started to get very depressed. That lead me to sit around all day, smoking weed, eating junk food and candy and of course I got constipated. Not in the way that I dident go, Im pretty regular and go at 1-3 times every day but the bowel movements had to be forced due to the size and dryness and so, I got a fissure. Which surely must be the bodys way of saying F**k you and welcome to hell.
Anyway, I tried to fix the problem my self but a few months later I went to the doc. He confirmed my fears, I had a fissure in the 6 a clock position. I got some mild steroid creme with lidocaine in it but dident use it as I was afraid of thinning the anal skin.
So I started to do what ever I could to heal. It became an obsession, but a necessary one. Hours on hours spent on research but finally the things I did started to pay off. I got to a point with no symptoms what so ever after fighting the fissure for maybe 4-5 months or so.
I was finally free again (or as free as an isolated, none working person can be) and the future started to look a little brighter. As you can imagine, it dident last. Why else would I be making this thread right?
3-4 months went on without any symptoms. Slow, but steady things started to get worse again but it wasent the sharp fissure pain I was used to. It started to itch for aparently no reason, burning after BM, swelling of the anal skin, sometimes a small amount of fresh red blood on toilet paper and stuff like that. I went to the doc and he made another visual examination. No fissure, but the anal mucosa was red and irritated and the anal veins was somewhat swollen, but he said that it was not a hemmorrhoid (which I dont understand as I thought that swollen/twisted veins was hemmorrhoids?)
He thought it was some kind of inflamation so I got a steroid creme for it, and not hydrocortisone, this was a much stronger one. Also, it had some antifungal stuff in it.
I used this 2 times a day for 8 days and quickly got symptom free but just a week after the treatment I was back to square one.
So, back to the old rutines anyways with sithbaths and what not. Ever since I have had problems in that region, that comes and goes with maybe 1/15 days being symptom free but other symptoms of intestinal distress was starting to show it self. Abdominal pain that comes and goes (like Crohns, but is somewhat relieved by antacids), constipation like stools that come out of no where, sometimes too watery stools (rare), feelings of bloating, acid reflux and stuff like that.
3 weeks ago it got really bad. It was like my entire colon was at sleep. I dident get the BM urge as normal, I had abdominal pain and for about a week I dident fart at all. In this week I had some big, somewhat dry stools that required a lot of straining to get out and that was very painfull. This went on for almost 2 weeks and then went back to normal with BM urge at the same time a day (mostly 2 times), normal amount of "air" and the feeling of a gut at work instead of sleeping/dead feeling - dont really know how to explain this.
The episode above has left me with an anus that, well, doesn´t work!
The last week I have had stools that are soft, not too big and which would normally slide out pretty easy even if there was pain with it, normally im done and feel empty in like 10-20 seconds or so but now it wants to stay shut. I have to strain a lot, to the point there I get cold sweat and anxiety attack, my heart beat goes crazy and I think that I wont make it. The pain is severe but could be worse I quess, its more the straining that takes it out of me at this point but my situation down there can change quickly.
This got worse and worse everyday so I went to the doc yesterday. I thought that I had gotten an internal hemmorrhoid from the straining and that it was blocking the exit so I had to strain. I really wish that It was a hemmorrhoid, even though Iv never had one (at least not that i know of) and therefore I dont know how bad it is) but what my doc found just about the worst he could have told me.
I got multiple fissures. 4-5 he said, and the visual exam was so painfull just from spreading the skin down there to look that I dont know how I got through it only screaming one time.
I knew this could be a sign of Crohns or cancer but he dident think so. He then proceeded to give me a digital rectal exam (finger) which was painfull but quickly over. No hemmi, no blood, no mucous.
The doc told me to start the steroid cream again but I dident want to as I was afraid of getting thin skin down there (maybe im already to late and the cream is the reason that the constipation like stools gave me multiple fissures, in which case I quess I might as well kill my self). I requested Diltiazem 2% cream which I havent tried before but I wont be able to get it in the next 2-3 days.
So what the can I do untill I get this cream? I know how to keep stools soft and at the moment they are. Still, they are very difficult to pass, getting harder every day. Im pretty sure that I justify for a IBS diagnose and I know its only a matter of time before I get a big/hard bm and I dont think that I will be able to pass this.
I gave pre-BM lubrication with coconut oil a shot today but It dident help at all - if it did I surely would have passed out without it!
Im thinking about trying lidocain creme before BM untill I get Diltiazem but I would like to know if this would make stools even harder to pass as the area gets numb or? I never tried this before.
Any advice will be greatly appriciated!