Well, I've been dealing with an AF for almost 4 years now, although with odd symptoms. I've got the bleeding but no spasms and virtually no pain...only if direct pressure is applied (like if you sat on a hard chair too fast without watching out for that little area.) It doesn't hurt to go to the bathroom or do pretty much any activity. The only bad thing is if it drains or does anything weird sometimes it'll kick off a little bout of folliculitis. That's so very much fun indeed.
I went to a doctor last year who looked at it and called it a "minor laceration" and prescribed an antibiotic (Levaquin) which damaged my tendons a bit...but that's another story and basically I got over that.
The end result is I'm afraid to mess with it now. I'll go weeks without any symptom other than a little tenderness, then one trip to the bathroom and I see a little blood for 3 minutes. I added fiber to my diet and I use Balneol with warm baths..it seems to keep in under control, but I want it gone permanently. I'm a little afraid to try any medical treatment because so far having doctors look at it only made it worse (the exam opened it further) and the medicine caused me such tendon pain...
Any suggestions? I consider myself very lucky that the effects of mine are so minor, but it really needs to go away now...:(