Hi,
Welcome, but so sorry you are here!
I'm not familiar with proctoplasty. That sounds more like a advancement flap procedure?
He said he would cut away some scar tissue but no mention about pulling skin over to cover wound?
When I am more sore, I feel it all day. It's because of the inflammation. I have to be careful how I sit and not get up and off of seats too quickly so as not to pull my butt cheeks. -sigh-
Have you got your BMs under controll, aka consistently soft so not pushing or straining ever? You want to make sure of that before you get any procedure done.
Sounds like you have seen a lot of docs but a second opinion from a crs wouldn't hurt. Plus you can look up the doctors' reviews on sites like ratemds.com.
-Tanya