Just wanting to get thoughts on what people think is more of an indicator that their AF is healing - seeing some blood on the toilet paper with minimal pain/discomfort or no blood but suffering pain? sometimes i seriously don't know which one is worse!

I would think less pain.
It might help to keep a track record of pain. Like a scale of 1-10 and see if there is a correlation between blood and pain. Sometimes it is kinda ambiguous.
-Tanya