Ihad a abyscess for 5 weeks and my live was miserable. Yesterday the doctor confirmed a fistula and that I would need surgery. I am so scared and depressed and having a hard time coping. The fear of the unkown, possible loss of my bowels, etc is literally killing me.
I meet withthe Doctor onMonday - butI can't think straight now. What am I in for? How bad is the surgery and how much pain and suffering will I need to endure. I am a healthy male 49 married with 1 child - and I feel like I checked out of living now. I want my life back. Please give some advice.