One of my fissurectomy scars, which is internal, has recently scratched or torn. It’s has been four years since the operation. I take Movicol, magnesium, supplements and watch everything I eat and drink. Everything to prevent further fissures. I was on holiday at the time which is the only thing that was different.

I know it’s just time now, there is nothing else I can do but I feel so despondent. I’m struggling to care about caring! What do others do to stay positive? Can you just forget it’s there and get on with your lives?