by happyass » 12 Aug 2007, 19:14
jennie,
here are my thoughts......
1. you already went to one CRS and got his opinion. however, you were not really well informed with other options yourself and possibly were not comfortable in requesting for other options despite the CRS's opinion.
a fissure is a non-life threatening issue and really i think it is individual on how much pain one can tolerate until they are either self-healed or agree to proceed with surgery.
2. now that you are getting caught up with other fissure sufferers here, you are seeing that many have followed different paths and have been given other options from their doctors, whether it be a general practitioner, CRS, ob/gyn, gastro, etc.......
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i definitely think you have options. surgery is one of them. but that would be one extreme as doing nothing would be the other extreme.
if you feel comfortable in going back to the CRS and if you liked that doctor, demand for another plan of action despite his/her reservations. if this is what you really want to do, do it. i think you have a higher chance of healing when you are in agreement with what your mind/body is telling you what to do rather than forcing a procedure you are not ready for.
on that note, why not get a second opinion. when you see another CRS, which i really think would probably be the best person to follow up with - my general practitioner gave me a referal to my CRS and that is how i met him - and now that you are more informed about choices, definitely have a discussion that is more suited to your plan of action together with the surgery as a third or fourth choice to make if the first two or three don't work.