Hey everybody, so this is my story:
I am 24 and suffering Colitis Ulcerosa since 3 Years almost. Since October I have an Anal fissure which I think resulted finally from Anal Sex. In December I went to the Dr. and got some creme with Diltiazem. I abstained from Anal Sex for a month but unfortunately I did not use the cream on a regular basis on my forth week. So After a month I had Sex and it started bleeding. I abstained from Sex again and went to see a Dr. again and she gave me again the same cream and told me to not to have Sex for at least a week or better two. I had no Sex for almost three weeks but still the Fissure opened up again. This is repeating itself and two days ago it happened again.
Generally during intercourse I don't really feel pain or the fissure. It is afterwards when I have to go to the toilet the burning starts. But after 2 days everything seems fine. It is just as soon as I have Sex that it opens up. There is never blood. So now I am afraid and don't really know what to do. Now I really want to use the Diltiazem 3x a day and have no Sex for at least a month.
What do you think? Is a month enough? It is a bit sad because I am right now in Spain for studying a year abroad and I came to have fun and I am meeting a lot of nice guys but since october things don't work out the way it should...