by juney » 26 Mar 2008, 09:27
i think after you've suffered for so long, you're more likely to notice and overanalyze every little pinch and pain in your butt. i know i definitely do! just take it week by week, not day by day. if things get worse from one week to the next, then i'd start to worry. but you did recently have surgery (plus the infection), so just try to relax and let your body heal itself, try not to analyze every thing you feel down there... unless it's bad pain of course!!
interestingly, my bf says even he sometimes gets little spasm-like feelings after a large bm. and he's never had a fissure!