Does the fear ever go away!!

always scared of the next BM being hard and things going back to being painful

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Does the fear ever go away!!

Postby scaredritz » 14 Mar 2017, 18:28

I had hemrrhoids ( self diagnosed ) and may be a tiny fissure ( stinging during BM). However, whatever it was , i tried conservative methods and home remedies and am almost pain free (touch wood....)now. But...that nagging fear of the next BM taking back things to square one is just not leaving me. My bum is constantly on my mind and has practically taken over my life. Everything i eat....is with a thought about how is it going to come out tom.
I am sick and tired of this and really neeed a break from all this...i want to live a normal life.
How did u guys stop thinking abt ur a$$ the whole time and how did u manage to get ur life back .
Pl i need some reassuarnce that things do get better for good.
thanks
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Re: Does the fear ever go away!!

Postby mystery » 15 Mar 2017, 11:34

I have had AF for a few years now. Each time AF begin to get better & I was getting less fearful of having a BM I would get another AF. Although I stayed lubricated before BM I still had tear. Maybe it's just me but I think I will always be fearful. Sorry to say but at this point everything revolves around my bottom. Taking a stool softener daily seems to be the best solution for some. Good luck!
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