Hey guys - sorry for the "girl" intruding this thread - but I agree with everything said ! Pain definitely can lower a libido in males and females alike !!! It is absolutely normal side-effect but very bothersome
and is just one MORE thing to bother us and worry about
I could not even imagine having sex while I had active fissure - I was in so much pain - I hardly had a will to eat or live, to be honest and "fooling around" was really not on the "top of my priorities"
But - Gato - if you WANT to have sex but can not due to ED - why not ask your doctor for some extra help (Viagra) !? It can maybe even lower your sphincter spasms , you know ; ) and increase blood flow in that region and help you heal ; ) !!!
I wish you the best of luck with everything !!!