by Elphie » 05 Jun 2011, 20:39
I'm so sorry you're still suffering after finally getting surgery, which SHOULD have given you some relief! It's not unheard of to have a second LIS, some docs cut conservatively to avoid the dreaded incontinence. My surgery, on paper, was called a superficial lateral internal sphincterotomy, and I was concerned that meant he wouldn't cut enough, and I discussed this with him before they knocked me out, I told him to please make sure he cut it enough to release it, because I didn't want to do it again. Not because it was horrible, but the build up, fear, prep, stress were all too much to deal with with my ass on fire even more than usual. I think if I was you and still suffering, I would definitely do it again no doubt. I'm sure that doc will be sure to do a good job second time around, to do otherwise would really demonstrate a lack of skill on his part IMO. I was so, so scared I would be one of the few that didn't get relief, I simply couldn't imagine an end to it after all I'd been through, I can only imagine your frustration, it simply ISN'T FAIR! It must be tough to have to go through this decision again, but you've gone this far! You don't deserve to suffer anymore! If you are comfortable speaking with your doc, maybe you can explain your misgivings and ask him to assure you he will do it effectively this time if you do decide to do it. It was hard for me to talk to my doc too but I was getting angry at the end and couldn't hold it in. I needed to get back to my life, my whole family suffered too! I hope you get relief soon, no matter how you get it.