Hi all,
I have a healed fissure but live in some fear of a retear.
I can be very obsessive in my nature but generally keep a lid on it all until it just reaches a stage where I feel it overwhelms me.
Routine is very important to me and I like the routine of knowing when I am going to have to pass an urge - only right now, my BMs seem to be all over the place and mentally, I hate this. I'm not the sort of person who can lightly shrug it off and fear that because I don't go when I generally do, that the stools will be harder & larger and cause an issue.
I try so hard not to think like this because generally things pass when they are ready and with not a great deal of difficulty most of the time either, nevertheless it disturbs me and I hate the way it makes me feel - generally low until I get the satisfaction of passing stools.
It's without doubt a mental issue I'm dealing with as I've been practicing the good diet, lots of water and been producing healthy stools for nearly 2 years now!
ADs helped my state of mind immensely but I'm off them now - Is there anyone else out like me??! and if so, how do you deal with these thoughts!?? This issue really p*sses me off!! I feel if I could become more relaxed about the whole issue in general, I would be such a happier person sometimes!!
Thanks for reading :)