Hi, Everyone,
A little background info on me:
I'm 29 years old, female, and a new mother (hence the screenname). I gave birth to a beautiful son on September 28th. I suffered a terrible labor and won't go into much detail, but ended up developing a fissure the beginning of November (blood on stool and tp). The first colorectal doctor I saw pretty much gave me little hope other than giving it time, drinking Citrucel to bulk stools, and diltiazem. I suffered with a lot of pain for awhile, until I came on this forum and read basically everyone was drinking Miralax. Why my doctor did not recommend this, I do not know. So I started taking half a dose am and pm and lo and behold, my bowel movements stopped feeling like knives! But for whatever reason, this fissure retore yesterday. I'm attributing it to possible eating more now since breastfeeding leaves me ridiculously hungry all the time, I actually started to eat regular sized meals! But now the re-tear. So what do I do? I'm so depressed and discouraged. Between trying to recover from insomnia that I've had since Day 1 in the hospital and trying to take care of a 3 month old with no family nearby, I am at my wit's end. The second specialist I saw was much more encouraging and told me she would be happy to do the fissurectomy. I don't know what to do. I'm in a lot of pain but I'm scared of the pain after the surgery, plus I kind of feel like I'm basically sealing the deal that we're having no more kids. The icing on the cake is my husband and I have still not had sex. I'm so afraid to with this fissure, I don't know if it will make things worse.
Does anyone have any advice? Encouragement? Please help!