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Postby sugarspice » 20 May 2014, 03:29

Hi everyone,

I was wondering if any women are having sex whilst they still have their anal fissure?

I have a very understanding husband and he is not putting pressure on me in any way, but to be honest I miss it! I am human after all lol.

My fissure is long (pretty much top to bottom) deep and chronic. I have had my second round of botox recently and I'm just not sure. I know I am not healed yet as still have 'some' pain and 'some' bleeding.

Is anyone having sex/or had it, and if so what was the impact on your fissure?

Def don't want to ruin my recovery

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Re: Anal fissure & sex

Postby owmybum » 20 May 2014, 14:43

I found that having sex really irritated me. The last time we attempted anything like that I ended up bleeding with the next mornings bm.
I'm very lucky to have a very patient understanding husband... Who is terrified of hurting me any more than I already am!!

You'll have to get a bit inventive with other things wink wink!

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Re: Anal fissure & sex

Postby Scientist2516 » 20 May 2014, 21:07

Sex didn't hurt particularly. I just felt so yucky about everything between my legs that I didn't feel sexy at all for months. However, if I made an effort, I was always glad afterwards. If it had hurt though, that would have been a whole different story. I was lucky I think.
Nifedipine/lidocaine, no help
Diltiazem, effective, but caused major rash
Nitroglycerine, effective.
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Gentle heat to bottom - pain relief, muscle relaxant
Kondremul mineral oil
Time - lots of time.
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Re: Anal fissure & sex

Postby sugarspice » 21 May 2014, 03:56

Thank you OMB & Scientist,


I think we do need to get inventive lol, maybe I need to re-read 50 Shades lol.


Not sure whether to try or not really :-\
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Re: Anal fissure & sex

Postby Scientist2516 » 21 May 2014, 08:06

Try some cuddling and see where it leads!
Maybe some non-penetrative sex to begin with.
I think it's important to keep the home fires burning.
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Re: Anal fissure & sex

Postby sugarspice » 06 Jun 2014, 07:16

Thanks Scientist, in a lot of pain again but will try your advice when feeling better and see how it goes! :-)
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Re: Anal fissure & sex

Postby Scientist2516 » 06 Jun 2014, 09:05

Sorry to hear you are in pain. Fissures certainly are a passion-killer. :cry:
Hope you feel better soon.
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Re: Anal fissure & sex

Postby sugarspice » 11 Jun 2014, 12:47

Thanks Scientist, scheduled for LIS on Friday, eek!
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Re: Anal fissure & sex

Postby Savaici » 11 Jun 2014, 20:35

Good luck with the LIS, sugarspice! Hope all goes well and you are soon on the road to recovery!!
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