Hello everyone,
First let me say that everyone who helps here is an angel. I had no idea this existed and will never take my health for granted again. I have read everything on this forum and around the web. I was hoping someone could add some advice to my situation :/
2/12 me and my gf (I am a male) decide to experiment with a prostate massage. Everything seemed to be going good until I felt two really sharp pains. However there was no blood so we kept going. Over the next few weeks I had a ton of perennial pain and no one could diagnose what happened to me.
3/12 I finally went to a colon rectal specialist who located two anal fissures. He said my anus is really tight and prescribed me nifedipine 2% and said I should be healed in a month. I am very health conscious and prefer to avoid medicine at all costs so I chose to try and heal naturally. Over the next few weeks things started to get better until I felt like I was almost healed. I was constantly applying coconut oil in and around the opening.
4/4 I wasn't careful and stopped my treatment, I pushed really hard during a BM and I irritated everything again. Now I am starting to get depressed/annoyed.
Currently I only feel "something" (not too painful but I definitely feel the cuts) during a BM on the inside, sometimes I will spasm and have tightness down there but it is no where near as bad as it use to be.
My questions are;
1) I have never had any blood? Is this normal for an anal fissure?
2) I went and picked up my nifedipine prescription. Since my case is from sexual trauma, and since I am "tight" down there, do you think the nifedipine is worth a shot?
Thank you so much for any help or advice God bless all of you.