by FinnsMom » 22 Jan 2012, 01:35
Hi Sweet,
Life is better than this!! And yours will be so much better than this, hun, just be strong and hang in there.
I don't know your whole story, but I hope for your sake, that this third CRS is very confident about surgery. I saw two different CRS docs, the first one never really wanted to try surgery - he let me struggle with two fissures for over a year, my second CRS would have done surgery on me that day if I would have let him! He was very, very confident that he could help me heal and I believe he did. Of course I'm only 3 weeks post op, but I feel really good, and I'm really happy I got a second opinion.
I know it's incredibly hard but try to stay positive, you can get through this alive! :) Try to do fun things: rent a ridiculously dumb movie and make fun of it with your husband, make a fruit smoothie after dinner, check out a good book from the library. Just try to focus on positive things while you wait.
And here is a joke to make you laugh!
The mom is cleaning her 14 year old son's room. As she's making the bed she discovers a stash of explicit S&M porno magazines under his mattress. Distressed about this discovery she calls her husband at work, "I'm afraid our son is into S&M I found his porno, what should I do?" The husband replies, "For God's sake don't spank him!"