Hi there Ki, and welcome to our happy band of AF warriors
Just a bit of info about the Sitz bath - it does not go IN the loo, but fits over the edges of it. It is an absolute wonder to have, and easy to wash and stash away with others in the house.
I would join with fitch and jr2 to say NEVER wipe, and using wipes is not a good idea either as they are drying, which causes yet more irritation. Dab with damp loo paper and then you could use what I do, which is Johnson & Johnson gauze small pads, wet, to make sure all is totally clean down there. We get quite descriptive on here, but tis the only way to get across how important these ways and means we've used to get getter, or at least relieve some of the pain!
By the way, the little tube that comes with the Sitz, and the bag, I have just never used. I just fill the Sitz bath with a jug. I would measure the top of the loo to see if you can get the Sitz bath on. Most loos should fit it.
Well, that's my little welcoming speech