back from seeing my GP again (which i love her) (and hate my crs), I unsure of where to go now. its been over 6months since LIS and things are still not better still having discomfort everyday. I have not left the house besides to docs in 2 weeks now coz i just want to hide and forget this is happening. I think this is now taking a massive toll on my mental health and my 15 month daughter is suffering from it in ways of me not taking your our and doing fun stuff always locked up inside.
I am researching phyisos and if they can help does anyone know much about that????
I know if i go back to the CRS he will just say lets to a 2nd LIS and i dont think thats the right thing to do. I think i would have incontience problems with 2nd LIS.
This have now stop me from doing well anything for 15months and i am over it and lossing hope. not sure why i am writing all this maybe coz u guys understand when no one else does. As bad as it sounds to say i wish i had someone close to me that has went through this to talk to. (but i dont wish this on anyone). ohhhhh what else can besides 2nd Lis and wait but wait for how long.......
thanks for listening

Hey Mum,
I'm so sorry to read that you're not doing well. What exact symptoms are you having right now? It took me a long time to recover after LIS too. I definitely wasn't completely okay at 6 months. Far from it.
Is your fissure pain still the same? Or is it other new stuff that only started happening after LIS?
BTW if you would like, I would be happy to speak with you over Private Message, email, or even phone if that helps. I don't want to overstep any personal bounds here. After all, it's the Internet and there are all kinds of weirdos out there :)
But I do want you to know that many of us here, myself included, understand the pain, frustration, and anguish that a fissure can cause. I won't claim to understand exactly what you're going through right now, but I can say that we here probably have the closest idea out of anyone you'll ever run into. I got my fissure when my wife was pregnant with twins (a boy and a girl). Then my son was born with cerebral palsy. And I had LIS when my kids were only 8 months old (they're about 20 months old now). It was really tough, and that's despite the heroic efforts of my wife in taking care of most kid related things. I can only imagine how rough it is for you taking care of a young child while suffering.
Please continue to let us know how you're doing. And I'm not kidding about my offer. If you would like, send me a Private Message and I will give you my email address. When my fissure was really bad, I was Private Messaging all sorts of folks on this site (Kim, Tabby, Fissulyna, and CherylK can all attest to that!) and it was a life saver to just know someone out there knew what I was going through. We can't fix your fissure, but we are here for you :)

Thanks NG pm you. but things have now gone from bad to worse, had 2 painful bms first time really since 2wks out from Lis :(