Sorry to hear about your pain again...
I agree with the others here in that the hormones must play a part, constipation, etc. are common during pregnancies. Your body is going through big things so it will affect your butt as well.
I think that you in your situation with a pregnancy and a fissure just have to accept that you may be having problems in the butt area for a while...don't expect to be painfree. Lower your expectations and don't be disappointed if and when you are in pain. Maybe you don't like this approach, but to me it has helped a lot to be realistic in how I view things and deal with things. When my fissure was on it's wonderful worst behaviour (2x3 cm.) I only existed, and when pain was unbearable I always thought that time would help me and ease the pain.
What's most important to think about is that this will NOT kill you, pain and discomfort - YES, but you will live to see your children grow up :)
What I would do - ask for a C- section ASAP so that delivery will not cause further damage down there.
Another thing, use this forum a lot - here one can complain and get support, which is a very important factor to staying sain in these sometimes unbearable situations.
Good luck anyway
Corsica, mother of 2
