Im debating having the LIS surgery..the colorectal surgeon i went to im not so sure about..he was nice but there terrible about returning calls or answering any of my questions and didnt really inform me very well the first visit he was very quick just told me stool softner,fiber, and gave me dialtiziam and sent me on my way..i didnt realize how hard this is too heal..went for a follow up in a month and he retore my bum..OUCH! back at square 1..i figured id be fine its been 2 months now and has taken over my life..im beginning to breakdown mentally. Thank You in advance for any recomendations..Anyone has a successful surgery in south florida?? im scared of the risk of incontinence im only 29..worried even if i dont have it after 20 years down the road i may start having problems..scary..i also read a story on here a 30 year having leakage issues 9 months later!

im too young for this! HELP!