Hey SC,
You probably need to be sure and take your stool softeners before midnight too.
I have read about others having a BM the same day and I really don't think one day to the next will make that much of a difference. Just don't hold it and do everything today before midnight that will make it soft when it does come.
I've read about others taking their pain meds 20 min before and running the bath to jump in?! Just don't eat anything that can constipate you or make your stools hard after surgery...
You maybe one of the ones who were surprised with how well it went. I think you are going to do fine.
Are you having your surgery at the hospital or a surgical center? It's good that you get to go early. Mine will be at 12:15 in the afternoon. I'm not crazy about the time. Did your doctor tell you what pain meds you will be given?
Well, take care. I will be praying for you and you are on your way to normal life again