by rasmith3530 » 11 Feb 2012, 16:39
As I had mentioned previously, my concern at the time was that the drugs would be unsuccessful, I would awake to find myself strapped to a bed in some mental ward getting my stomach pumped and with only more pain to show for my effort. I was QUITE serious at the time, let me assure you. So yes, I know how stress can get caused, used, and amplified with this ailment. The other issues going on with me medically have not helped either.
To have all of this going on and then to be in such pain to boot put me over the top. A dear friend of mine from childhood returned from his second tour in Nam years ago, and several months later, I received the news from his family that he was dead. He'd left a note behind before taking one last glorious ride, and propelled himself into a tree along the "Dragon's Tail" in North Carolina. At the time, I wondered what could have driven him to do such a thing, but it was stress, just like what seems to either cause or contribute to our AFs, and then works to block successful healing.
I am in many ways concerned with my upcoming surgery. I've read a few stories of healing nightmares and folks having new fissures appear afterwards. I'd bet dimes to dollars that it is stress that brought along those complications, and if there is one thing I can guarantee, it is that as I come out of the fog of anasthesia on the 27th, all of the stressors from my other issues will be there to greet me. That has me worried big time!
So, yes Tanya, I should still be around on the 27th, but a lot of my initial excuberance that the surgery was going to be the end all - cure all for my rear end issues has faded.