Hello,
I am about to undergo LIS a week from today. My fissure is not that big and I don't have any underlying issues (or so it seems thus far). The location, however, appears to be problematic, as I've had it for a little over a year now, 6 months where it has been severe pain and spasms. It will seem to heal from time to time, but during those times where I am pain-free, I have gone to the CRS and they have still seen the fissure. I usually take enough Miralax and eat enough lettuce to keep myself pain free but every months right after ovulation period, the fissure seems to break open again causing severe pain and spasm (which have been severe and the main source of the pain). I think my fissure is related to my menstrual cycle, as certain times of the month my stool is harder than usual and that causes a retear. I feel that this was initially caused by overseas diet changed induced constipation. I am no longer constipated, but anything slightly harder than the "soft serve" consistency will make a retear and painful spasms. i know I put unnecessary pressure in that area when nervous and I am guessing that my uterus puts pressure on this area during hormonal changes.
Anyways, this fissure has completely ruined the last six months of my life as I was initially abroad but am now at home in agony, waiting to have the surgery. The surgeon is a board-certified CRS but is always warning me about the incontinence risk, which is scary to me as I am only 30 (childless, never pregnant). Is this really a big risk for someone like me? I am pretty healthy, good BMI, work out, eat healthy, had a pre surgery blood test and everything is great.
I don't generally even have stomach aches, so I think the fissure is causing all of my pain and pressure (I also will have tailbone and vaginal pain with retears). Sitting here typing now, I am having the painful spasms but I am very used to it now.
Should I get the surgery with the risk and move on with my life? I have been very aggressive with creams and diet in treating it so far.
Is the risk over-exaggerated? help!