Many of us ask that question !!!!!!! It is just that some of us have more luck and some of us have less and some have none *sigh ... If you read the scriptures - the opposite is said actually , that those who suffer are the blessed ones. I know it sounds as oxymoron , but spiritual world has different "rules" and works on different levels than material one Tell me - what is your FAVORITE food , so I can think of the way you can eat it and still have a "whole" butt ; )))