...when outside "icepacks are a lifesavor for the burning pain" to sit on, yes I look 'stupid' snears from people, but what works for me is "sitting on ice outside".
Secondly, try to get rid of all the "leftover poo inside' this is very difficult through the daytime, I find even a little inside irritaes the AF to death and burns. Maddening!! Since October 8th and still suffering. No more stool softner for me, do not like pooing 24 times a day from the softner. Just one teaspoon of Metimucial a day, otherwise I am pooing all day lone, which i cant handle. And yes everyday is different in the quest for pain free. Thanks