I had a fissure in July 2015 - very bad, when I was on holidays. It was a hard, large stool, probably due to dehydration.
I got home, saw my doctor and was put on diltiazem cream. I was also told to up water intake, start metamucil and use stool softeners, which I do.
The metamucil doesn't work much - I never had much of an issue with bulk or softness before the fissure. I am now only doing stool softeners and my stools are smaller/thinner than on metamucil (which is good), but I still get pain, irritation and some bleeding.
I saw a surgeon a few weeks ago who said there's some scar tissue, no internal hemorroids, and my options were to do nothing, do botox or do LIS.
I can't afford botox, it's not covered here. So LIS is the only option.
I'm TERRIFIED.
I don't have horrific pain or anything, just irritation, occasional blood and just not feeling right. Nothing I've done has helped, but I don't know if this is severe enough to warrant surgery. I've never had surgery in my life, I'm terrified of it. I was told I'd be out completely, there was a risk of incontinence (low), but I am so scared that will be the outcome.
I suffer from anxiety and depression already. If this surgery were to cause incontinence there is NO WAY I could handle it. But I also can't handle dealing with the possibility of a new or re-aggravated fissure every time I go to the bathroom.
I feel like I've lost my life. I don't know if I should just suck it up and deal or have the surgery. I don't know if I should try other things like coconut oil or some other cream - I just feel stuck and sad and alone right now.