Hey Jackie,
My wife is about to give birth to twins (within the next 2-3 weeks now), one boy and one girl, and we are naming the girl Jasmine too! Different spelling but looks like we have good taste in baby names
I'm sorry to hear about the botox, I thought I recalled your earlier thread about it not working. That's one of the options I was looking at too for my next step. So far the symptoms have been stabilizing a bit though (I'm "cautiously pessimistic" about the fissure) so I've been putting off the decision for a bit longer.
Hope you can get some relief soon...