Hi Dawn, thanks for the links.
Its good to read them, makes you realise your'e not 'the only one' and all the worrying things that occur are normal (omg, did I just type out loud that these things are normal!!).
Thanks Happyass, support always well received, ta.
Well I have just got back from the CRS this morning and he's pleased with how its going. The flap is healing/healed and the are a few stitches that have caused holes but should heal okay. Thankfully those are not near the actual flap. I still get stabs of pain, blood, discharge etc but as long as its headed in the right direction I can deal with those. Just got to keep on taking it easy and keeping it ultra clean down there I guess.
Does anyone have a suggestion for suitable wet wipes? Only for those emergency BM's when not at home or do you 'old hands' know of an alternative? A whoopy-cushion filled with warm water maybe?!! (just kiddin
).