Hi Sue!
Well, I guess one of the things I'm learning is that everybody's post-op experience is different. I think you made the right decision last night Sue, as one of the things my CRS told me is that you have to test yourself occasionally to see what your "new and improved" body can handle. If you don't experience any additional pain, that will give you confidence that you are indeed healing. If you do experience additional pain, then you will know your body isn't quite ready for you to skip sitting in the bidet yet. Either way, you do learn something about where you are in the healing process.
I hope you are having a better day today Andy!