Anal Fissure Support Forum

... out every time I spot. I wish I was a more religious person at times, maybe I could find some strength in a higher power, but due to me being gay of course I am not welcome in any church. And most of my family have shunned me for my mental issues and for being openly gay. But I am veyr thankful ...

... emotional problems. I was diagnosed bipolar this summer right before this started and was coming to terms with it when this happened. And being a gay male wanting intimacy, due to my butt issues I can't even have a normal relationship. It just sucks. Feeling hopeless. In a way I kind of hope the ...

... when I go, due to the pain on that side, I spread my buttcheeks apart a bit to relieve the friction. This just sucks. So what should I do? I am a gay male, but I've had no receptive anal sex in over 4 years. Or had any toy or anything up there. In fact, I have tried to be extra careful to keep ...

... good. My doctor gave me these long skinny wooden q-tips to go deeper, cause my fissures in the back. and another friend suggested; " Find a GAY friend to show you", well I may end up with something 'else' up there. My ass feels raw from all the sitz baths I am taking 10-15 a day, so ...

... be a wonder-fix, but it seems like the healing process is taking forever.   Here’s my story for a little background:             I’m a 26 year old gay male with a monogamous committed partner of almost 4 years. I first had my fissure in Nov of 2011 after having a rough bm. While it initially healed ...

I need some pointers..i have stenosis a narrowed rectum from the fissure thats left scarring..im a gay bottom and you guessed it can not have anal sex should i dialate with butt plugs? or will that cause more harm to the scaring? ive been using coconut oil and aloe vera ...

Hi there everyone! I am a 23 year old gay man suffering from AF(s) and living in fear of every BM! Not entirely sure what caused them (I have never had anal sex) but I think it was constipation and a heavy BM! My story begins in June/July 2012 ...

... on and off for the past 2 months. I've been suffering from fissure on and off for about 4 years. I didn't know it was called "fissure" as I am a gay bottom and I do anal sex. I thought "sharp pain" is just part of the anal sex. I would do it once and wait for a few days and then do it again. ...

... got an up close look at my....hole. I saw the irritated cut and it freaked me out. It wasn't huge, but it was upsetting to see it so clearly. As a gay man, I was also very worried it could have been an STD. I'd just had sex, as a bottom, the week before this issue came up. I'd been tested recently ...

... any of the symptoms of an anal fissure: no pain, no bleeding, no itching, no stinging, and etc. - nothing. This leads me to my query: I am gay, and, although I have not had any sexual experience as of yet (as much as I have sexual needs I know that I would feel much more comfortable engaging ...