I did go to another CRS and he actually told me that the fissure was gone. He couldn't see anything on the site of the insicion either. Wich is good news but leads to no explanation for why I still have some pain after BM and general discomfort all day long. The CRS said that the leakage problem can be taken under examination once the pain is gone. He also gave me a dilator to try out for amonth but I only used it for two weeks since I felt I was only getting worse. I wrote about it on the "self dilation" thread. I don't really know where I could get a bulb syringe... I actually have tried rolling toilet paper in tight "sticks" and trying to use them to clean inside my butt after BM. This might actaully have helped a bit. I also try not to let the muscle close right after a BM which seems to decrease the pain and maybe even the leakage.
I guess I have to just keep doing what I'm doing and see if it gets any better... Thanks for the replies.