NG - thank you so much for all this useful information. I actually feel vindicated because I'm pretty sure, based on everything I've read, that my abscess needs to be surgically drained. In fact, I'm doing everything I possibly can to get that done. I'm not looking forward to it (after having read your and other posts about the procedure!), but I do think this is the best course of action. It turns out getting treatment isn't easy where I live! Here's a long story with TMI coming up, so skip what follows if you like.
Last night the pain was getting slightly worse - kinda tight, raw, swollen and a bit like a knife was up my butt. I took a look at around 10pm and thought I saw the area where the incision site was looking a bit pinker and more swollen than it should. Decided I would contact my doc in the morning.
This morning I woke up with the same sensations, took a look and saw that the area was definitely pinker than it should be, quite tender, and there was what looked like a small pimple just inside the anal verge (you'd have to spread the anus to see it). Decided to go to emerg. Got in quickly because it was so early in the morning. The first doctor to see me remembered me from my ambulance adventure. She took a look and then went to find the surgeon on call. She came back a few minutes later to tell me that the on call surgeon doesn't want to see me because he didn't perform the LIS - I have to go back to Dr. McKenna at the Rudd Clinic. My husband and I argued with her for a long time, and all we got was "surgeons prefer ...", "this is how surgeons do things ... ", "you have to go back to the Rudd ..." until finally I had a total meltdown. I mean sobbing, hyperventilating, shaking, the works. Nurses were scrambling to put paper bags over my head and shove ativan down my throat.
They were going to send me away without treatment!!!! They were going to make me go back to Dr. Death!!!!
I had a full-blown anxiety attack.
The doc who initially saw me went back to beg the on call surgeon to come to see the crazy hyperventilating woman, which he did eventually. He checked me out and said that he saw no evidence of infection or abscess. Perhaps there was some scar tissue from the LIS. I should stop the cipro and take warm baths. He said that my reaction is quite out of proportion to my problem and that I need to stop focusing on that area. He said that his office will call me for a follow up appointment. (I later got an app for Monday)
I left the hospital pretty pissed off at doctors, but not too strung out because the happy pill made me mellow.
Got home, took a short nap, then went to check out my butt. Looked in the mirrow and saw a distinct red blister. When I touched it, it oozed brownish pus mixed with blood.
Since the surgeon didn't believe that I had an abscess, I took pictures of it with my iphone, and I collected the exudate and put it in a small container (I'm beyond squeemish now!). I am bringing all that to my appointment on Monday when I see the surgeon.
Saw my GP this afternoon and he gave me more happy pills, some painkillers, and more cipro. He agrees that my abscess should be drained surgically and told me that the on call surgeon is the best guy in town, so, as long as he believes me that I have an abscess, I may actually get proper treatment before this develops into a fistula - if it hasn't already!
Sorry for the very long post. I really don't know what to think. Part of me thinks that the abscess is pretty superficial and so should clear up soon with proper treatment. Another part of me is worried because the pus initially came from inside (as far as I could tell), but now there is an unmistakable external boil-type-thing and I don't know if that means a fistula has already formed.
I guess it's time to take more happy pills!
Sorry again ... I've feeling pretty down :(
Thanks to NG and everyone else, I will be able to go to the appointment Monday armed with knowledge!