by littleorange » 08 Jul 2011, 08:01
Hello Andrew, I'll do my best to answer your questions:
1)AS u mentioned that ur surgery scar did not heal for 8 months so what did the doctor said about that.
He told me that it was due to my stress and that I should just calm down. He didn't offer a real explanation so until now I don't know why it took so long for the wound to close. It was only at the end of the process that I started looking for other kind of help/opinion. I discovered that there are dermatologist/physicians specialized in difficult wounds. If I have again this problem in my life and and I have another surgery and the wound is not closing, I would definitely run to ask for the opinion of this other doctors.
2)now that the scar has healed do you completely feel normal (like before having an anal fissure) .
Yes and no. Yes, the wound is closed but I'm still in the emotional recovery period, meaning, I still can't forget that this happened to me and for such a long time. I'm visiting a therapist (not only because of the wound) and I'm doing my best to recover from this period. Also, my body has still a bit of pain memory, meaning, the scar of the wound still hurts although it is closed. I am taking a painkiller that works very well for a while and eventually i will not need it any more. However, my case is quite rare and I am a bit of an obsessive person!
3)is it really difficult to work after having surgery
During two or three weeks I had to lie down and avoid sitting. If you go for the surgery, your doctor should tell you for how long you should lie down. During that period i did not work (I'm a writer) and I was reading a lot and watching a lot of movies. After that I had no problem working in spite of the pain because the wound was open.
4) could u live a normal life after surgery mean riding a bike or playing any outdoor games that requires intense physical activities
YES. I'm going for long walks and enjoying the fact that I don't have to stay at home to clean the wound after going to the toilet. As a matter of fact the doctor told me I could have started practicing any sport months ago, but I was reluctant to it because I was afraid of hurting myself (as I believe you are). A good thing to do would be yoga. Not as a spiritual thing but as a way to relax and stay in touch with your body in a healthy way. I did meditation and that helped me to control my stress and fears.
Please let me know if you have ANY question and I would be VERY happy to answer.
Stay strong, we can do this and more!
Good luck