Hi everyone,
Thanks to you all for such a sharing experience! I have been on here for a couple of hours, reading lots of posts and really grateful that such a personal condition can be discussed openly.
I am a 48 yr old female, have had problems with a recurring fissure over the past 3 years. The pain at times (like this week) is almost unbearable. I practically live in my bath ( yes, soothing, but very temporary), i DREAD going for a BM constantly (especially if i'm away from home), my "routine " seem to take ages: Dabbing myself clean with loo paper ran under warm water, dabbing myself dry, applying ointment sometimes( have used GTN 0.2%) but sometimes can't stand the headaches it brings.
When i do have a BM i very often cry, the pain is nearly constant, with sleep (when you do manage to) often the only relief, as i'm sure you will all agree.
I have had lots of tests, loads of examinations, steroid injections, hypnotherapy (recommended by the hospital), my GP doesnt really know what to suggest next.
It is so very hard to talk to anyone about it, you cannot describe the pain , and of course, its a very personal thing to talk about!!
I hope i can come here again soon, thanks for your support and for listening, i will keep you updated of any helpful info i can get. I'm going back to my GP next week, i feel like i want to sit there and say " please do something to help me, or i'll end up being sent to a psychiatric place! (sorry, i know it probably doesnt seem dramatic to you all... we know the depth of the pain) i'm normally a positive person, truly, but this seems such a hard battle to fight!! Got to go, can't sit for much longer,
thanks again, and love to everyone x