Aw Sue,

Sorry to read your post, it won't always be like this & I wish you all the very best in making your decision and in your journey to get through this.........You have been on this site for so long & been a part of so many experiences that you just deserve to move on! In your position and 3 years on, I don't think I would hesitate about opting for LIS either, having been through so much already. It was great to see Davo here and read his words of advice & I would definitely agree with his comments on the Incontinence issue, having read pretty much the same thing recently. Of course, there's always a slight risk with any surgery, but sometimes you just have to take a risk in life to get where you want, I guess....
I'd say when you go back, push for LIS as much as you can and make your feelings clear & the fact you do not want to suffer anymore......If you get to the stage where they decide to offer you LIS option, then you don't need to go for it immediately. If you have any doubts or worries, it will just buy you time to do a bit more research, ask a few more questions, but you will have the reassurance at the back of your mind, that they WILL treat you when you have finally decided it is the option you want to take. I think you just need to see a way out Sue - for your own sanity! .....
Hopefully lots more will pop by now to offer you their own thoughts too, but also trust your own instincts about what you need to do and go with them (You know your body best) x x