Hi guys
I am new here and don't even know where to begin. I delivered a 9lb baby 11 weeks ago after 81 hours of labor and about 1.5 hours of pushing. About 2 weeks later I had horrible pain and blood when I would use the bathroom. I thought it was just my hemerroids but after using cream to no avail I started to research a little more. I am now almost positive I have a fissure. I went to a surgeon on Tuesday who was insanely rude to me. He tried to use a scope on me without numbing me or anything. Once I screamed out from the pain he stopped the exam and told me I was in too much pain to exam. No kidding. He then told me to come back in 2 months. No creams or meds or anything. When I asked if it was just hemerroids he said he didn't know could be a tear. Needless to say I will not be returning to him. I have another appointment with a surgeon this week coming up but don't want any surgery whatsoever because I am breastfeeding my baby. I have read about coconut oil on here but I'm not sure what kind and if I can just use it on the outside since it's too painful inside to put anything there. Also I have been taking motirn after I have a bm because the pain is excruciating. Sitz baths too. Any other advise for this poor mama who can barely function???