Hi, everyone. I've been waiting several days to post here but too much distracted by the pain, so I just search and scroll down through the valuable info, sometimes with tears and sometimes with laughter. This forum provides me a huge support in between screaming of pain. I'd like to thank you all from the deepest of my heart.
A little bit about my condition:
I'm 31 years old female, having irritable tummy since I was a kid, diagnosed with lactose and gluten intolerance in 2012. Having diarrhea and grumpy stomach is usual for me, been living with it for years. But in 2014, a few days after my marriage, I was constipated for days and finally got a pretty horrible bleeding when I had BM. I waited several days without medication and it seemed to heal by itself.
Only after that, whenever I travel, stay overnight at a new place, or under a lot of stress, I will get constipated and sometimes the bleeding comes. In my home country, I was given Faktu suppositories (policresulen and cinchocaine), and it helps a lot. Whenever the pain comes, I will just insert it and the next day I can have a normal BM (even though the stool was a bit hard but its okay since I think my sphincter was normal back then).
But, 5 months ago I moved to Netherlands, I didn't bring Faktu with me since it was out of stock in several nearby pharmacies. Of course, I was worried, but I try to keep my diet fairly healthy so I will not get constipated. Generally, my diet consists of brown rice in the morning, always with veggies and protein, pretty much the same for lunch, and smoothies for dinner. Still, whenever I'm near my period of the month, sometimes I get constipated. In those 5 moths, I think I had one episode of bloody stool beside this one, but I didn't pay much attention, hoping it will heal by itself, and it did.
Now, starting from around mid April, I got severe constipation, for several days the stool came out but very big and hard (pardon my language), and I felt incomplete evacuation after each BM. After that, the urge is still there, regularly, every morning, but the stool just didn't come out. Apparently, I got impatient and pushed it, and the next three days I always have blood after every BM. The sore/ache in the anal/rectal area was quite disturbing, but since I've been living with irritable tummy for years and getting use to this pain, again I ignored it.
The last time I had 'almost normal' BM (at least the stool came out pretty much, even with blood and pain) is on 25 April, 9 days ago. in an attempt to push it out, perhaps the tearing got pretty bad and that's when this all begin. It was when I noticed the spasm and throbbing, burning, excruciating pain which is the worst I had in my life. I call the GP seeking for relief, but they're only available for appointment a week later. I drag myself to a nearby pharmacy asking for medicine similar with Faktu or any available OTC, but faktu is not sold here. I bought lidocaine 5% with zinc oxide and bismuth subnitrate (theranal), but my sphincter was too tight I couldn't deliver the medicine inside. So it doesn't really help.
I literally writhing in pain for three days after the 'Big Tear', every movement is a torture, event lying in bed the excruciating pain still comes every three minutes or so. I can't cook, can't move, can't stand, only lying in bed gritting my teeth and gripping tightly to the bedsheet every time the pain peaking. I think the worst pain comes from my rectum attempting to expel the dried plug near the anal opening while the anal canal itself is injured (oh, can't believe I would discuss it like this, but I know you'll understand). So it's like pressing/scrubbing the fresh open wound into a rough dry surface. The only thing to relieve it is by getting rid of the dried plug. But with the fresh wound and the spasm, I was tortured. So I decided to go to the ER, diagnosed with AF, and being given diltiazem and lactulosa, and also being told to continue the lidocaine and do a warm water bath.
Since my visit to the ER on 28 April, I notice that diltiazem eases the spasm a bit so I can insert the aplicator for lidocaine. Because of the reflex to expel the plug, I need to go to the toilet several times a day, but usually with no luck instead of a mess that I need to clean while trembling with pain, and what comes out just the size of a small pebble.
I'm getting worried, not only because of the pain itself, but also the 'obstruction' which I think may impede healing (?). I don't know for sure, but reading many advises here, it sounds terrible to have impacted stool. let alone in the newly developed fissure. The lactulosa apparently has 67 mg lactosa per ml, and since I'm lactose intolerance now my stomach grumble, but the stool is ot what will I consider as soft. It's not dried and hard, but still solid and feels blocking the opening.
I read about miralax but it's not sold in Netherland, one article say here it comes by Transipeg name, but different in term of electrolyte or something. Has anyone tried transipeg? it's also PEG3350 like miralax. I'm afraid the electrolyte will cause more burning sensation down there. I also doubt that it will act faster than 2 days. I considered enema for quicker action, microlax with sorbitol is what I spotted on nearby pharmacy, but again, will enema hurts more, or is it better than letting the plug stay longer?
Any advice will be really appreciated. I'm sending prayers to you all suffering the same condition, hope we will get rid of this soon.