Laurieb, wow, we are in this together, aren't we! Pain has been tolerable for the most part. I took Vicodin the first night only, then Toradol for 3 days, and since then just ibuprofen. Right before the surgery, my fissure had started to heal (it knew the surgery was coming so it was trying to lull me into complacency - but after several re-tears, I wasn't falling for it!) So, immediately pre-op: I had almost no pain except for during BMs, and spasms were also pretty much gone thanks to diltiazem.
Immediately post-op: first few days were tougher, but as days went by, ended up not even needing ibuprofen around the clock. Sitting and standing are a different story but I figure that will come in time. (Tried to go for a walk today but had to cut it short after 15 mins - throbbing, yikes.)
Then... 10 days post-op: spasms after BM

Reminded me of the pain from when this began. Not quite as bad as the agonizing days, but close. This has repeated each day since then - it starts an hour or two after a BM and lasts a few hours. It seems so weird because this was not happening for the first 10 days post-op! Apart from the spasms, pain is minimal! How about you Laurieb? How is your recovery so far?
MPB - thank you for the reassurance, I've now read your reply 50 times at least, just to calm myself down. I can't thank you enough. Will definitely discuss with my CRS as well. My follow up is in a couple weeks. Not sure what I would do without this board and all of you - so much gratitude to all of you!!!